Hi guys! It's been a while and I miss you big time! I'm back...AGAIN... and I'm not doing an outfit post today (maybe on my next blog entry). These past few months have been really very heartbreaking for many of my friends. So, I decided to write something about my stand regarding LOVE. This post, as a woman (am I a woman? oh yes. i gave birth months ago. so I'm a woman. Kidding lol), will be for my fellow Ladies out there. Gents, you can still read and get some ideas on how to treat your partners. Hey! I'm no expert in this field but I think my ideas are worth sharing.
PS: Not everything I will say is based on my own experience. I'm going to spare my very own love life here. LOL enjoy reading!
"LOVE" is a very broad word that leads to hundreds of different doors. If asked to define, honestly, I think I need a week or two to really think of the right words to properly give its meaning without murdering the word itself! Well, I assume you girls already know what it means? You may define it different from others but I know the feeling, that wonderful feeling is the same with the rest. So let's take it from there, okay?
Almost every girl around this planet, regardless of age, race or whatever differences we have, dreams of meeting her prince charming someday. Isn't it nice to wake up next to someone who will kiss you despite your morning breath? Or perhaps tell you you're the most beautiful woman in his eyes the moment you wake up (with your haggard morning look). A man who would never give up on you despite those over-used "blame it to my hormones" reason. A brave man who would face your parents without fear and tell them how much he loves you. A perfect man who would kiss you on your forehead and tell you every day that he is the luckiest man to have you in his life. That Mr. Right who would hold on your hand and never let go until it finally wrinkles. But hey! Is this man still alive today?
Finding that man we describe a while ago is nearly impossible today. I said NEARLY. Just nearly and not totally. Yes! I still believe there is this man out there for you. He might be just a little bit busy preparing himself for your future. The thing here is, "Mr. Prince Charming" still exist today. So what now? Ladies, we must learn to set that STANDARD and hold on to it no matter what happens. If you really want to be with someone who will never leave you all throughout the years then in the first place set the standard. A boy will try to persuade you but it takes Mr. Right to strive harder than the rest and wait for you, no matter how long, just to hear that beautiful YES! If you set your standards high, others who are not worthy enough will get tired amidst their venture and vanish. And those who are worthy will stand and continue to climb higher just to be with you.
If you're currently in a relationship that's not an assurance already that that man is Mr. Prince Charming. If he passed "the test" then one point for him, but it doesn't end there. He needs thousands of points to prove to you that he really is Mr. P.C. Let me make this short. If you're not happy with him or if you cannot see a future with him then tell him and make a decision to end that relationship. It may sound rude but hey there's no sense in making the relationship last longer if in the first place one is not happy. It basically defeats one important purpose in love and that is to make your partner happy for the rest of her life. Also, if you decide to do it, then it's actually an early prevention for something like third-party issues or things alike. It'll be very devastating to know if your partner is dating with someone while he's still into you. You don't want to be caught up in a situation where he calls you babe instead of honey. Or worse, greet you happy anniversary when it's not your special anniv day.
Now, if you're in a state of being single AGAIN, because of a fake Mr. P.C., don't you worry! As long as you believe that the real Mr. P.C. exist then no problem. I always use what I learned in the book "The Secret by: Rhonda Byrne", think without a doubt of the things you want to happen and it will happen. Remember ladies, our mind is the most powerful organ we have. It can control anything so use it to attract Mr. P.C! After a breakup, allow yourself to go on to the grieving process and after that, MOVE ON! If you want to be happy, move on. You may say that you can't because you still love that fake Mr. P.C, but I assure you a day will come and you'll realize that you deserve someone better, the real Mr. P.C and not a parody. Well, having a past relationship with someone will ALWAYS teach you something and will lead you to a better you. So don't dwell too much in the past, it's really a waste of time. TRUST ME, it's a waste of time. Move on. Walk straight ahead. Learn from the past and use it to strengthen your future. Who knows the next minute you may bump in Mr. P.C.!
Love knows no time. It may come late or even too soon! Never mind that three month rule. Sorry but I'm not sorry. I mean it. Ladies, don't care what others will tell you. As long as you know you're not doing something fishy or stepping on someone else' life, go on. What others will say should not affect you. ALL OF US will be judged by people, just don't give a shit! Besides, it's that Mr. P.C you're going to deal with for the rest of your life and you don't need everyone's go signal for that. Be open for dating. Date all you can. That's the advantage for us girls; we can date all we want. There's nothing wrong with dating unless you exceed to the boundaries of it. Trust your female instincts. It works most of the time!
So there you go, I hope it helped you. Share your love concerns in the comment box below and I'll try to give a quick response to all of you.